How to Choose an Ob-Gyn

One of the most personal decisions a woman has to make is choosing her ob-gyn.

To start, ask yourself these questions to help guide you to your best decision.

1. Should I choose a man or a woman?
   The gender question is a delicate one, so think carefully about who you would feel most comfortable with. Some women prefer female doctors, and others prefer male doctors, so this is something only you can decide. But note that if you do choose a male doctor, he will have a female nurse stay in the room during exams.
2. Am I planning to have a baby?
   Because some gynecologists don’t deliver babies, consider this if you plan to have a child in the future. Once you build up a trusting relationship, it could be difficult if you have to switch to a new physician for your pregnancy.
3. Where does the ob-gyn have privileges?
   If you’re planning to have a baby, or if you have special needs that could require surgery and/or hospitalization, find out where the ob-gyn has hospital privileges. That could have an influence on your decision. The hospital should have specialized services available, such as a neonatal intensive care unit. The hospital’s website should be able to provide this information.
4. Who do my friends, family members and co-workers see for their care?
   Word-of-mouth referrals from people you know are excellent ways to find an ob-gyn who is right for you. This is one of those questions most women are glad to help you with. And don’t overlook those in the know-people who work at the practice site you are considering. If you know someone, call and ask for their input. And even if you don’t know anyone, you can still call the office and ask to speak to one of the nurses. They should be happy to answer your questions and help you determine if one of their physicians is right for you. Another benefit is that you are able to learn how helpful and friendly the staff is.
5. Where else should I look?
   Community publications sometimes publish lists of the top doctors in their area. Check with local magazines or newspapers to find out. In addition, national rankings that may be helpful include America’s Top Doctors and Best Doctors in America, both of which have websites.
6. Is this doctor covered by my insurance policy?
   Contact your insurance carrier to make sure the physician you’re interested in is covered under your current policy.
7. Do I like this person?
   It can be very easy to find excuses not to go to an annual exam, so make sure your ob-gyn is someone you like and respect. Many offices will allow you to set up an initial appointment so you can meet and talk to the ob-gyn you are considering. Consider if the doctor listens to your questions, answers your questions and is someone you’re comfortable with. You may also want to take the time while you’re waiting to quietly observe the waiting area and the staff. Is the area comfortable and clean, and is the staff friendly and helpful? Warning signs that the relationship may not be a good fit is if the doctor doesn’t listen well or talks down to you throughout your conversation, or if the staff seems consistently unfriendly or aloof.
8. What if I have special problems?
   If you have medical issues such as infertility or prolapse that could require a specialist, find out if your ob-gyn has this specialized training, or which specialist he or she will refer you to. A large center that includes infertility specialists or urogynecologists may be a good choice if you have these types of needs.

Finally, remember to trust yourself. The most beautifully appointed waiting room won’t make up for a physician you’re not comfortable with. Make sure to choose an ob-gyn with the experience, personality and services that fit best for you.